Your Dildo and You: Our Usage Tips for This Iconic Sex Toy

Ah, the dildo ! This universally liked pleasure toy is, perhaps surprisingly, not a merely modern invention. In fact, people have been using dildos as sex toys from at least as far back as 28,000 BC. The dildo is therefore an iconic sex toy that has therefore been passed down across ages and cultures. And there are a thousand ways to play with a dildo, whether you are a novice or an expert.

How do you actually use a dildo ? And what kind is best ? From silicone suction cup dildos to vaginal dildos and anal dildos, what are the different models of dildo toys now available ? Is a dildo product necessarily a vibrator product too ? Let’s find out together how to make penetration the key to your unlocking the most pleasurable sensations, and improving your sexual health and the well-being of both mind and body. Read our dildo guide to find out all the tips and secrets of the world of this most delectable of sex toys !

Suction cup, anal, or strap-on : what are all the different types of dildos ?

Modeled on the penis, the dildo comes in many shapes, sizes, forms and categories. Just like people ! Whether you’re in a couple or single, there’s bound to be just the right dildo, sex toy or product for you.

The Realistic Dildo

The realistic, silicone dildo is arguably the most popular type of dildo product. Designed to faithfully mimic the look and feel of a real penis, it offers the most authentic vaginal or anal stimulation and play, and also adapts to all levels of good comfort, experience and stimulation.

The Anal Dildo

If you want to explore backdoor stimulation, an anal dildo or anal plug is a really good option for both men and women. It is often thinner to facilitate its insertion into the anus. For an even more pleasurable experience, be sure to use a water-based lube, such as the 2-in-1 lubricant & massage gel like Mixgliss Nu. And you could try a vibrator too.

The Strap-on Dildo

You might know it as simply a “strap-on”. Regardless, its undoubtedly iconic. It is a more or less realistic penis-shaped dildo fixed to a harness, or belt, allowing you to both participate in the act of penetration as a couple. All you need to do is play and get used to the harness and you will be able to enjoy all sorts of good sexual positions. It makes for the most exciting sexual experiences to share with your partner ! And it levels the playing field between men and women, allowing women to don a penis, and allowing men to enjoy the pleasure of penetration from women too.

The Double-ended Dildo

This long, flexible sex toy is aimed at those looking for double pleasure. With its two ends, it allows for simultaneous penetration :

• Insert it simultaneously into the vagina and the anus for solo stimulation ;

• Or to use together with a partner, in any position.

After all, polyvalence and pleasure start with the same letter !

The Suction Cup Dildo

Perfect for solo moments, the suction cup dildo attaches easily to any smooth, clean surface. You will therefore have complete freedom of movement to explore all of your various erogenous zones.

Like more color in your life ? Then, we’d highly recommend our glittery, kaleidoscopic suction cup dildo Stargazer Dildolls. Is anal your thing ? Discover the silicone butt plug Open Roses !

Dildo or Vibrator: What's the Difference?

This is a common question when it comes to sex toys: should you use a dildo or a vibrator? Both dildos and vibrators are designed for penetration, whether vaginal or anal, the only major difference is the vibration itself.

In comparison to vibrators, dildos simply do not vibrate. Generally, a dildo is made of soft silicone to adapt to your insides, and can be equipped with a belt, harness or a powerful suction cup to hold in place, whatever your favorite position. A vibrator adds stimulation by means of vibrations, which can quickly propel you to seventh heaven.

The silicone dildo is the ideal entry point into the world of sex toys. It allows you to gently discover the pleasure of penetration using a sex toy. It’s then up to you to choose whether you want to explore more intense sensations and add a vibrator to your collection. Various vibration technologies, in fact, exist to switch up the sensations, such as tapping or thrusting, and there are plenty more toys and surprises in store !

If you prefer to concentrate on more external sensations, you might favor a third type of product or sex toy : the stimulator, which is not designed to be inserted at all, but to titillate your anatomy from the outside of the body, for example, by providing gentle caresses to your clitoris. You will soon learn that you don’t need penetration to experience the most intense pleasure or orgasm.

Using a Dildo Properly: 6 tips to maximize the pleasure you get from your favorite sex toy

There are tons of ways to use a dildo. Here are our tips to help you find the best for you.

1. Find the right position

The position you take is crucial to fully enjoy your dildo sex toy. Your goal: discover what gives you the most intense sensations and what makes you quickly lose your senses. Don’t hesitate to experiment with your sex toy each time you play with it !

• Lying on your back with your legs raised is a great way to start out ;

• Lie on your stomach or position yourself on all fours to get deeper penetration from your dildo sex toy ;

• Lie on your side and squeeze your thighs to give you the impression that your dildo is bigger ;

• Use a suction cup dildo so that you can have your hands free, and get into pretty much any position.

2. Why orgasm often begins and ends in three little spots

Dildos have a shape that makes them safe and very effective in stimulating the most sensitive spots in our anatomy. Short or long, more curved or straighter : it’s up to you to choose the dildo design that best suits you. And find the spot that makes you orgasm every time !

The G-spot

The G-spot is one of the essential elements of the female orgasm. It is generally located just a few short centimeters inside the vagina. So it is relatively easier to find when you insert your dildo.

The A-spot

The A-spot is also found in the vagina, near the cervix, a little deeper than the G-spot. It is sensitive to pressure and stimulation, and can deliver sensations just as wonderful as the G-spot. So, you might have to insert your dildo a little more and play around until you find the spot.

The P-spot

The P-spot concerns the prostate this time, a key area of anal pleasure for men. Using a dildo to stimulate this spot can lead to a very powerful orgasm ! So, if you have never tried anal penetration, maybe now is the time.

2. Successful penetration is above all a question of getting the angle right

Your satisfaction will depend on the angle you insert your dildo. A slight adjustment as you insert it can make all the difference :

• To find the G-spot in your vagina, we recommend an upward angle ;

• To find the P-spot, tilt your dildo in a slightly more downward angle.

4. In your quest for sensations, every centimeter counts

At Love to Love, we see pleasure as something universal. It is something for everyone, whatever their habits under the covers. The depth you want for your dildo is no exception !

Whether you prefer a long or short dildo, or shallow or very deep penetration, take time to find out what suits you best. After all, bigger is not always better ! Don’t be afraid to explore, and listen to your body above all ! Use slow movements at first, then increase their intensity a little at a time as you feel more comfortable.

5. Your pleasure in the round

This rule applies to both dildos and vibrators : rotate your sex toy around inside your body. By rubbing your dildo or vibrator against the walls of the vagina or anal canal, you’ll be able to explore and enjoy each of your internal erogenous zones with amazing precision. And you’ll have 360º of pleasure !

6. Double penetration means seeing double

Double penetration is a practice that offers extraordinary sensations. Whether you use a double dildo or combine the use of two dildos, the experience can be intensely gratifying. If you are on this trip as a couple, make sure to communicate well with your partner for mutually intense sexual games. Make sure to add some lube too. And to keep your dildos safe and clean, for the good health of both you and your partner. Especially if you use them with other people too, it’s always important to prioritize health.

As you will have read now, learning how to properly use a dildo will open the door to often unexpected sensations. On your own, you will get to know yourself and your body better. As a couple, you will discover the ecstasy of shared pleasure, penetration and a variety of positions. However, don’t forget the most important thing : what truly matters is how you feel, not how you perform.