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A rabbit vibrator, geisha balls, a dildo, a clitoris stimulator, an anal plug: this rather unusual shopping list is sure to quickly confuse the uninitiated. Choosing your first sex toy often involves a lot of hesitation, especially when there’s lots on sale, and you might need to pluck up some courage when it comes to biting the bullet.
So, how can you make your first steps, what kind of product, and for what kind of price? What are the best sex toys for a beginner?
At Love to Love, we won’t get you lost in all the technical details. We can assure you, the number of revolutions per minute of vibrators, ultimately, has little importance. The main thing is your pleasure. Another scoop: there’s no such thing as making a bad decision. The search for sex toys is a journey that has one sole objective: your own sensuality.
Want to discover it together? We’ll put you on the spot, but not under pressure!
How to choose your first sex toy to begin your journey towards greater pleasure?
Whatever your situation, your first adult toy should be something that suits you best and makes it easy to start exploring. Let’s start with Love to Love’s three golden rules.
Rule #1: Make your well-being a priority
It’s difficult to let yourself go and allow yourself to feel pleasure if anything about the experience is unpleasant. If you’re trying out sex toys for beginners, your well-being has to be your first priority. We therefore recommend toys made from the best body-safe materials:
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High-quality silicone
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Stainless steel
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Glass
These materials are hypoallergenic, non-porous, and easy to clean. You can therefore use your sex toy without any risk of irritation. Your comfort is priceless!
Rule #2: A great discovery also means simplicity
It is at this point in the article that we invite you to take a step back from the famous quote: “Go big or go home”. To choose your first sex toy, there’s no point, as a beginner, starting with a vibrator that has 8 different rhythms, 5 different tips, and also mows the lawn. And though sex toys come in various sizes, it’s best to start with regular ones first.
Choosing the right toy among sex toys for beginners also means favoring simplicity.
Think basic but effective.
You will then be able to concentrate on your intimate feelings rather than on the full, technical side of things. In other words: take the time you need, and avoid the information overload.
Rule #3: Pleasure is accessible to everyone
Pleasure is priceless, but it also has a cost! Though, you can find quality products without breaking the bank. Your G-spot isn’t tied to your credit card. Its stimulation depends not on the price of the product, but wholly on the vibe you get going with your sex toy.
Entry-level toys can offer absolutely sensational experiences, just like their more luxurious counterparts.
Starting with something more affordable allows you to try out what works for you. There’s no need to make a big investment up front by buying the latest, trendiest vibrator! You can always compare and up the game and the price later.
Are adult toys more for couples or singles?
Our answer is as neutral as the Swiss: they’re for both. From vibrators through to stimulators, sex toys for beginners are for everyone:
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Those who want to explore their pleasure and sexuality alone
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Couples who want to spice up their sex life
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Three or more people that are looking push the boundaries of their sexuality with an explosion of sensations
The beauty of sexuality also lies in its versatility and diversity. The important thing for you and your partner or partners is to feel comfortable, to dare, and to experience uninhibited pleasure.
What are the best sex toys for beginners?
Vibrators, stimulators and anal plugs: after the theory comes the practice. Let’s discover essential sex toys to begin your quest for pleasure, to boost your well-being, and to enter into sync with your own desires!
The essential: the dildo
The undeniable star of sex toys for beginners remains the dildo. Taking the form of a penis, the dildo is a non-vibrating toy, generally made of silicone, that hugs your curves inside for a penetration that will take you to seventh heaven. It can be equipped with a powerful suction cup, to help you get comfortable and into any position that gives you the most joy! Anal or vaginal pleasure, the choice is yours with this versatile erotic accessory.
The Dildolls Stargazer will have you seeing all the colors: with its vibrant hues, its liquid silicone, and its very adherent suction cup, it will help you experience truly unforgettable moments of pleasure and play.
The timeless: the vibrator
The vibrator is undoubtedly the most iconic sex toy. The simplicity of a vibrator makes it perfect for those wishing to play, explore and experience pleasure through vibrations, but not only!
Other similar innovative technologies create equally intense feelings, such as tapping, or thrusting, which creates the very best sensation of back and forth. Want to give tapping a go? Then, the Swap vibrator and stimulator is for you, with its range of 10 vibration modes and 10 tapping modes.
We also recommend the rabbit option, if you’re looking for clitoral stimulation too. Try double stimulation with your favorite rabbit. The Funky Bunny will give you sensations to die for!
The energetic: the wand
The wand is well and truly a magic wand! This microphone-shaped sex toy has an easy-to-grip handle and a vibrating end which allows stimulation not only of the clitoris, but also all the other erogenous zones within reach. The wand is also an excellent body massager, so you can start by giving your partner an innocent relaxing massage that then gently drifts into an intensely erotic moment of body play.
With its textured flat head in soft silicone, the Brush Crush Wand is an excellent model to start with. It has a long-lasting battery and a set of 20 vibration modes and 8 intensity levels to give you a wide range of different sensations, for tailor-made pleasure.
The masculine: the masturbator
Certain sex toys for beginners are also for those with a penis: masturbators. They focus, for example, on the stimulation of the frenulum or glans, or pass vibrations on to the base of the penis, to boost sensations not only in solitary pleasure sessions, but also with a partner, introducing new forms of play into your duo games.
The Please Me masturbator-vibrator is a ultra-soft, multipurpose, hybrid sex toy, combining a ring and dildo in one. It delivers exciting vibrations simultaneously to both the penis and vagina, or penis and anal canal, also offering the extraordinary possibility of double penetration.
The discreet: geisha balls
Certain sex toys for beginners can also help you strengthen certain muscles. This is the case with geisha balls, two small silicone balls connected by a thread.
What do they do? They strengthen your pelvic floor muscles for even more intense sensations during penetration. They are also perfect for helping you regain feelings after childbirth or to combat incontinence.
To try out geisha balls, Joia is the perfect toy, with a design and weight suitable for all body types. The bonus? Their sublime soft touch in liquid silicone!
The audacious: the anal plug
As its name would suggest, an anal plug is perfect for you (or your couple) if you’re seeking a little pleasure via the backdoor. Keep it simple and small for beginners, so that you can discover this erogenous zone without rushing. To avoid any discomfort, don’t hesitate to invest in a lubricant that is respectful of your body.
Good to know: often made of silicone, anal plugs can also act as vibrators. Want to discover the pleasure of wonderfully titillating vibrations in your anus? The Witty vibrator is just for you. It stimulates both the P-spot and the G-spot: it’s up to you whether you use it anally or vaginally. Soft and flexible, it’s perfect for newbies!
The irresistible: the clitoral stimulator
If you’re looking for toys with a more targeted stimulation, the vibrating clitoral stimulator is a great choice. Easy to handle and extremely effective, it provides intense feelings with simple, easy control. Remember: there’s no need to go directly for the most advanced model!
Good to know: clitoral stimulators don’t just work on the clitoris. 100% inclusive, they can be used on other erogenous zones, such as the testes or penis.
These sex toys designed for clitoral stimulation have their own technologies to boost your pleasure tenfold. Did you know about flapping? Inspired by the gentle flapping movement of a butterfly’s wings, it works by vibrating a flexible membrane over the clitoris. Our Believer clitoral stimulator has this exact feature. It will take you to powerful orgasms, thanks to its ultra-soft mouth that hugs your clitoris.
Note: these different sex toy options are entirely complementary. Different pleasures are even better when they are brought together. Using an anal plug does not exclude the use of a clitoral stimulator as well: let your fantasies lead you to the naughtiest combinations!
Ultimately, sex toys for beginners aren’t just mechanical tools. Above all, they are allies in your quest for pleasure and an introduction to the wider world of intimate accessories. With oils, candles and lubricants too, all that remains is for us to wish you a happy exploration !